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作者簡介
龍應颱，1952年生於颱.灣，華人SJ率性犀利的一枝筆，33歲著手寫《野火集》抨擊時弊，21天內再版24次，對中國兩岸發生深遠的影響。34歲**次做母親，自稱從此開始上“人生課”，至今未畢業，且成績不佳——“人生三書”《孩子你慢慢來》、《親愛的安德烈》、《目送》，是這堂“人生課”中的三本“作業”。 內容提要 1、《孩子你慢慢來：龍應颱“人生三書”之一》
《孩子你慢慢來：龍應颱“人生三書”之一》—— 20周年經典新版“母子之書” 媽媽50後 孩子80後 “傢有二胎”的成長鏡頭……
作為華人SJ率性犀利的一枝筆，龍應颱的文章有萬丈豪氣，然而《孩子你慢慢來》卻令人驚嘆，她的文字也可以有萬丈深情。
這本書裏的龍應颱是一個母親，與生命的本質和起點素麵相對，作Z深刻的思索，Z不思索的熱愛。麵對初生至童年、少年時期的兩個孩子（華飛、華安），從齣生，到開始說話、識字、逐漸認識這個SJ，書中有忍俊不禁的童真，有無法抑製的愛憐，也有母子的無奈和迷惑。它不是對傳統母職的歌頌，它是對生命的實景寫生，隻有真正懂得愛的作傢纔寫得齣這樣的生活散文。
後來，15歲的“底笛”（弟弟）說：“有時候，媽媽帶我們在草原上放風箏。草原那麼大，草綠得齣水，我們躺下來，看風箏在天空裏飛。我覺得我可以一輩子躺在那裏。”
2、《孩子你慢慢來》目錄
【媽媽的序言】蝴蝶結/龍應颱
初識
龍
那是什麼
終於嫁給瞭王子
野心
歐嬤
寫給懷孕的女人
他的名字叫做“人”
啊！洋娃娃
尋找幼稚園
神話?迷信?信仰
男子漢大丈夫
漸行漸遠
3、《Z好的方法給孩子》
《Z好的方法給孩子》是ZM主持人王芳在養育女兒、從事教育工作中D創的近百個實用方法，是她送給爸爸、媽媽不心急帶齣好孩子的錦囊妙計，是由凱叔、明星辣媽團誠摯推薦的親子教育暢銷力作。
王芳將自己的多重角色成功轉化為親子教育上的天然優勢，將一名新時代YX媽媽具備的開闊眼界和全新思維融入8歲女兒的養育過程，她閱讀瞭200多本GN外XJ的親子教育書籍，卻不拘泥於其中的一招一式，結閤自己身為人母以及製作電視節目、從事教育培訓中與孩子相處的經驗和技巧，為有煩惱的爸爸媽媽們提供讓孩子跑贏人生長跑的教育方法，比如“行走教育法”“神奇記憶法”“微笑成長法”“朗誦課”、“感恩課”、“馬術課”……觀點新穎，語言輕鬆，實用、有效，可以幫助每一個不敢放孩子去飛的傢長享受父母真正成功的愛。
4、《Z好的方法給孩子》目錄
推薦序
好方法帶齣好孩子 凱叔
教育孩子有一套 李菁菁
聰明媽媽不著急 何靜
媽媽的時間是“零錢”
笑著長大
Z好的方法給孩子
學好英語的竅門
有一節課叫“道歉課”
過目不忘
傢裏那隻小“白眼狼”
上課為啥不發言
Z重要的教育
暫時沒有目錄，請見諒！
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