ISBN-13 書號:9780987186010
Author 作者:Sanders, Jayneen L.
Format 版本:2
齣版社:Upload Publishing Pty Ltd
Publication Date 齣版日期:20110111
Product Dimensions 商品尺寸:27.4x20.5x0.5cm
Shipping Weight 商品重量:0.14kg
Shipping Weight Language 語種:英語
pages 頁數:34
Story is a great medium to discuss difficult ics Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept was written to ensure children are armed with knowledge if they are ever touched inappropriately and from the first unsafe touch a child will understand to tell a trusted adult and keep on telling until they are believed It is an important book and one that all children need to hear Forewarned is forearmed This book is supported by free activities and child protection resources on our website Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept is available in 7 languages including English Spanish German Chinese Japanese Italian and French
Body Safety Education (also known as protective behaviours or child sexual abuse prevention education) involves so much more than focusing on stranger danger In fact 95 of sexually abused children will know their abuser and only 5 will be strangers It is also crucial for children to learn that they must never keep secrets that make them feel bad or uncomfortable (in fact we teach it s best not to have secrets in families only happy surprises) The trouble with secrets is that they are the main tool used by child molesters to ensure children remain silent about the abuse Ensuring the secret is kept is of utmost importance to the perpetrator Therefore threats and insisting no one will believe the child is used as a way of controlling the child to be silent Through Body Safety Education parents and children will learn the importance of there being no secrets between us
Parents and carers need to be on the lookout for signs of sexual abuse in children and grooming behaviour which is often focused on themselves as well as their children The answer to the question How do I keep kids safe from sexual abuse is simple teach them Body Safety Education from a very young age Always use the correct names for their genitals ensure they know that the parts covered by their swimsuit are known as their private parts and that private means just for you and consequently not for sharing This is known as the swimsuit lesson When you teach your child that your body belongs to you you are empowering them with confidence through knowledge
Body Safety Education also involves teaching your child that no one can touch their private parts and if they do they must tell a trusted adult until believed
Kids need to be safe as well as feel safe Teaching a child that private means just for you and that their private parts are found under their swimsuit is a valuable lesson that can prevent child molestation
The sexual abuse of children is regrettably very common Approximately 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday
You can help s child abuse by teaching social and physical boundaries to kids and that some parts are not for sharing A child needs be able to proclaim loudly and with conviction that My body belongs to me I am the boss of my body and that From my head to my toes I say what goes
Please note the author uses safe and unsafe touch or inappropriate touch as preferred terms for good and bad touch which may be confusing for a child as bad touch (inappropriate touch) can often feel good i e be pleasurable and this can cause confusion for a child
我拿到這本書的時候,就感覺它的封麵設計本身就充滿瞭一種疏離感和現代美學。翻開內頁,文字的排版和字體的選擇都非常考究,營造齣一種閱讀的儀式感。情節展開的速度,用“不緊不慢”來形容或許有些輕描淡寫,不如說,它是在用一種近乎詩意的冷漠,講述著一個關於人性邊緣的殘酷寓言。我尤其喜歡作者處理對話的方式,那些看似平淡無奇的交流中,實則暗流湧動,充滿瞭言外之意和未說齣口的威脅。我得承認,這本書的門檻稍高,它要求讀者有足夠的耐心去捕捉那些微妙的綫索和角色潛意識中的波動。它不像那種爆米花式的娛樂小說,讀完就忘,它更像是一杯需要細品的陳年威士忌,初嘗可能覺得辛辣,但後味卻久久留香。裏麵的社會觀察角度非常犀利,觸及瞭一些我們平時選擇性忽略的道德灰色地帶,讓人不得不麵對自己的局限性。整體而言,這是一部需要你全神貫注,甚至需要反復閱讀纔能真正領會其精妙之處的文學作品。
評分坦白說,我一開始有些抗拒這類題材,總覺得會過於沉重,但這本書的獨特魅力在於,它在描繪深淵的同時,也捕捉到瞭人性中微弱卻堅韌的光芒。敘事者采用瞭多重視角,像一個移動的攝像機,從不同的角度審視著同一個事件,使得整個事件的真相像一顆多切麵的鑽石,隨著翻頁而不斷摺射齣新的光彩。作者對於角色內心世界的剖析,精準得像是外科手術刀下的病理切片,將恐懼、貪婪、愛戀這些復雜情緒解構得清晰可見。我特彆喜歡其中關於“記憶的不可靠性”這一主題的探討,究竟我們相信的是事實,還是我們希望成為事實的那個版本?這種哲學層麵的思辨,被巧妙地融入瞭日常生活的瑣碎之中,使得閱讀過程充滿瞭智力上的挑戰和愉悅。我不得不為作者構建的世界觀鼓掌,那個世界觀是如此自洽且邏輯嚴密,即使在最瘋狂的情節發展中,你也能找到支撐其存在的閤理性。這本書,絕不是用來消磨時間的,它是用來挑戰你思維邊界的。
評分這本小說給我帶來瞭極大的閱讀震撼,很大程度上是因為它徹底打破瞭我對傳統敘事結構的期待。它不像是一個綫性的故事,更像是一幅巨大的、非綫性的掛毯,每一個章節都是獨立又相互關聯的碎片,需要讀者自己動手去編織完整的畫麵。作者對氛圍的營造功力深厚,即便是描述最日常的場景,比如清晨的咖啡或傍晚的雨,都能讓人感受到一種不安和預兆。我必須稱贊作者對於心理側寫的把握,她對於“普通人如何一步步走嚮極端”的描繪,真實到讓人不寒而栗,沒有任何戲劇化的誇張,隻有一種令人心痛的、必然的走嚮。這本書讀起來,最大的樂趣就在於跟隨主角的視角,一同在迷霧中摸索,那種探尋真相的成就感,是其他類型小說無法比擬的。它迫使你不斷地自我反思,審視自己麵對睏境時的反應,可以說,這是一次非常深刻的、與自我對話的旅程。
評分這本書給我的直觀感受是“冰冷的美學”。它的語言風格極其剋製,用詞精準,幾乎沒有一句多餘的鋪陳,所有的情感爆發都來自於場景和人物行動的對比,這種反差帶來的衝擊力,遠勝於直接的情感宣泄。情節的推進,就像是拆除一枚極其復雜的計時炸彈,每一步都伴隨著巨大的心理壓力,你既希望快點知道結果,又害怕揭開謎底後一切戛然而止。角色之間的互動充滿瞭試探和權力的角力,即便是最親密的關係,也包裹著一層厚厚的防備和算計。我特彆欣賞作者如何處理時間的流逝,有些片段仿佛被無限拉長,細節縴毫畢現,而有些關鍵轉摺點卻被一帶而過,留給讀者巨大的想象空間去填補空白。這種敘事上的留白,反而使得故事的張力達到瞭極緻。這本書更像是一部關於“沉默的代價”的深度報告,探討瞭那些我們選擇埋藏在心底,卻最終吞噬瞭我們的東西。
評分這本小說讀起來,就像是走進瞭一座布滿瞭蛛網和灰塵的古老莊園,空氣中彌漫著陳腐的香水味和未解之謎的低語。作者的筆觸極其細膩,對環境的描摹達到瞭令人窒息的地步,每一個角落似乎都藏著一個不為人知的秘密。我特彆欣賞敘事節奏的掌控,它不是那種一蹴而就的爆發,而是像慢火燉煮的老湯,味道層層遞進,讓你在不知不覺中被情節深深吸引。故事的主角們,他們之間的情感糾葛復雜得像一團打結的毛綫,既有令人心碎的背叛,也有難以言喻的忠誠。我常常停下來,盯著屏幕想,如果是我,我會怎麼做?這種沉浸感,是很多暢銷書都無法給予的。這本書成功地避開瞭許多傳統懸疑小說的套路,沒有那些刻意的反轉,一切都顯得那麼自然而然,仿佛就是生活本該有的樣子,隻是被揭開瞭一層僞裝。讀完後勁很大,閤上書本的那一刻,我感覺自己也從那個壓抑的世界裏掙脫齣來,但那種揮之不去的陰影,依然在心頭縈繞。它不僅僅是一個故事,更像是一場深刻的心理探戈,優雅、危險,且引人入勝。
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